"THE HEAVENLY KINGDOM IS LIKE THE EARTHLY KINGDOM"
A widow from Zembin came to Tomchei T’mimim in Lubavitch with
her two sons, R’ Moshe Reuven Zembiner (Zarchin) and R’ Feivel Zembiner (Zarchin),
asking that they be accepted into the yeshiva.
The Rebbe Rayatz, who was the active dean of the yeshiva,
agreed to accept the older brother, Moshe Reuven, but not the younger R’ Feivel.
The yeshiva’s financial situation was precarious and it was impossible to
accept all who applied to the yeshiva.
Feivel was so upset that he wasn’t accepted that he burst
into tears. In fact, a number of days passed with him still in tears.
One day, Feivel walked near the Rebbe Rashab’s yechidus
room while crying, and suddenly the Rebbe Rashab passed by and, noticing him
crying, asked what was wrong. Feivel told the Rebbe that he greatly desired to
join the yeshiva but was refused. The Rebbe Rashab entered his room and
wrote a note to his son asking him to accept the boy.
Later on, the Rebbe Rashab rang the bell and called for his
son and asked him why he hadn’t accepted the boy into the yeshiva. The
Rebbe Rayatz answered, "the Heavenly kingdom is like the earthly kingdom, and in
the earthly kingdom, i.e., Russia, only one of two brothers is taken into the
army. And this is how it should be in the Heavenly kingdom, i.e., the
yeshiva, too."
The Rebbe Rashab said the boy should still be accepted and
added, "There will yet sprout forth from him..."
(R’ Yochonon Gordon)
CRYING IN ORDER TO LEARN IN YESHIVA
Once, while farbrenging with the T’mimim, R’
Shmuel Grunem reminded R’ Feivel of what had happened, and said to him: Feivel!
Remember how you cried when you wanted to be accepted in the yeshiva? Do
you think you cried? No, your neshama cried!
R’ Feivel later became a shochet in Barisov which was
near Dokschitz, and I remember that he once came to Dokschitz to visit R’ Leib
Sheinen (the rav of Dokschitz).
(R’ Yochonon Gordon)
THE REBBE READ HIS MIND
At the Rebbe Rashab’s farbrengen on Yud-Tes Kislev
5664 (1904), R’ Zalman Schneerson of Lodz (known as Zalman Velizsher) was
present. The Rebbe spoke about how the Alter Rebbe received the truth of the
Baal Shem Tov’s teachings, and as R’ Levi Yitzchok of Berditchev testified about
the Alter Rebbe: We all ate from the same bowl, and the Litvak got the cream. In
a letter R’ Levi Yitzchok wrote to R’ Avrohom of Kalisk, he said that the Alter
Rebbe was very dear to the Maggid of Mezritch.
The Rebbe Rashab added: This letter of R’ Levi Yitzchok is
wondrous, for he writes to R’ Avrohom: This that you write that our teacher, R’
Menachem Mendel (of Vitebsk), was dear to our teacher, I did not hear, but I can
testify that my mechutan (relative by marriage, meaning the Alter Rebbe)
was very dear to the Maggid, who praised him highly.
When the Rebbe Rashab quoted the words of the letter, "I did
not hear," R’ Zalman Schneerson thought that the way he remembered the letter it
had said, "I did not know." As soon as R’ Zalman had this thought, the
Rebbe Rashab knew what he was thinking and turned to him and emphasized: It did
not say "I did not know," but "I did not hear" (i.e., he hadn’t
heard it from him but he certainly knew this).
Those present did not know what the Rebbe meant, but R’
Zalman immediately realized that the Rebbe was addressing his thought.
(R’ Menachem Zev Gringlas)
THIS IS THE UNDERSTANDING OF
THE ZOHAR!
A similar incident happened to R’ Zalman with the Rebbe
Rayatz. R’ Zalman was mekushar and batel to the Rebbe Rashab, and
after his histalkus, when the Rebbe Rayatz took over the nesius,
at first R’ Zalman was not batel to him, thinking that even if the Rebbe
Rayatz explained something a certain way, it could still be understood
differently.
R’ Zalman was once at the Rebbe Rayatz’s table and the Rebbe
explained a certain Zohar while R’ Zalman thought it could be understood
differently. The Rebbe read R’ Zalman’s mind and said to him: This is the
meaning of the Zohar, and nothing else!
From then on, R’ Zalman was fully mekushar to the
Rebbe Rayatz.
(R’ Dov Ber Chaskind)
"A HINT IS SUFFICIENT"
One of the T’mimim who learned in Tomchei T’mimim in
Lubavitch was R’ Yitzchok Gershon, who watched the Rebbe Rashab closely while he
delivered a maamer, and would take note of the Rebbe’s expressions and
even his hand motions. He once related that when the Rebbe said a particular
maamer and spoke about igulim, he noticed that the Rebbe made a
circle with his fingers.
R’ Yitzchok Gershon would say that by watching these
movements, the topic discussed in the maamer was grasped better, and, as
it says in Chassidus about "a hint is sufficient for the wise," there are
certain things which cannot be said but must be revealed through hints.
(R’ Kaddish Romanov)
HE TOOK IN EVERY WORD OF THE MAAMER
R’ Shmuel Levitin went to learn in Lubavitch when he was
sixteen. He arrived before Pesach 5699 (1919), together with his brother R’
Shemaryahu, who was a great scholar. They lived together in R’ Moshe Yosef’s "Kvatir"
inn.
On Pesach 5699, he heard the maamer "Ki Yishalcha
Bincha" from the Rebbe Rashab. R’ Shmuel said that the maamer
affected him greatly and he took in every word of it even though he did not
understand much at that time.
(R’ Shmuel Levitin)
THE REBBE RAYATZ SAYS A MAAMER FOR
THE FIRST TIME
On Shabbos Parshas Chukas 5699, the Rebbe Rayatz began saying
Chassidus for the first time (in his father’s lifetime). He said the maamer,
"Im Lo Brisi Yomam VaLaila, Chukos Shamayim VaAretz Lo Samti."
This Shabbos was the Shabbos before his birthday on Yud-Beis
Tammuz, whereupon he entered his twentieth year.
(R’ Shmuel Levitin)
A SPECIAL FARBRENGEN
When the Rebbe Rashab found out that his son had said a
maamer Chassidus he rejoiced, and in honor of the occasion there was a
special farbrengen on Motzaei Shabbos Chukas.
R’ Shmuel Levitin and his brother were at the inn they stayed
at, and the brothers R’ Shmuel and R’ Zalman Bespalov came and told them the
Rebbe was farbrenging.
The Chassid R’ Yaakov Mordechai Paltaver (Bespalov)
participated in the farbrengen. He was a great menagen, and he
sang joyous melodies at this farbrengen while making hand motions, as was
his way.
(R’ Shmuel Levitin)
A LITTLE MASHKEH MAKES YOU LOSE YOURSELF
R’ Moshe Betzlalel was also at this farbrengen. He was
very shy (and was considered one of the slightly more modern Chassidim, who wore
a cardigan" and smoothed their beards).
Mashkeh was distributed (other versions: the Rebbe Rashab
distributed mashkeh) and R’ Moshe Betzalel was given some too, though he
was embarrassed to take any.
The Rebbe Rashab said to him: Busha (shame, shyness)
is not appropriate for Chassidim. With a little mashkeh "farlirt men
zich" (you lose yourself).
(When R’ Shmuel Levitin related this he began crying and said
that this quote, that by taking a little mashkeh farlirt men zich,
was deeply engraved within him, and he concluded by saying that the main thing
is to be a nit metzius, a nonentity.)
(R’ Shmuel Levitin)
ALONG WITH THE CHAIR!
(In connection with what R’ Shmuel related about the Rebbe’s
Rayatz’s first maamer, R’ Zalman Bespalov related what happened with the
Rebbe Rashab’s first maamer, which he had heard from his father, R’
Yaakov Mordechai Paltaver.)
When the Rebbe Rashab said a maamer Chassidus for the
first time, it was an explanation of a maamer said by his father, the
Rebbe Maharash. The next day, R’ Yaakov Mordechai went to the Rebbe Maharash, as
he did every day at four or five in the morning, and told the Rebbe that his son
had said a maamer. Hearing this, the Rebbe Maharash rejoiced, and was so
happy that he raised himself up with the chair he sat on!
* * *
R’ AVROHOM FEIVISH ZARCHIN, A’H
The Chassid R’ Avrohom Shraga Feivish Zarchin was born in Zembin around the
year 5657 (1897). His father died when he was just a child.
In Tishrei 5670, when he was twelve, his mother took him
along with his older brother, Moshe Reuven, and brought them to Lubavitch to
Tomchei T’mimim. That’s when the incident which was related here happened, and
R’ Avrohom Feivish was finally accepted into the yeshiva and was one of
the outstanding students. One could see the fulfillment of what the Rebbe Rashab
had said, "there will yet sprout forth from him...," as well as the fulfillment
of the verse, "however his younger brother will be even greater than he."
R’ Yisroel Jacobson describes the period of time that he
learned in Tomchei T’mimim: R’ Shraga Feivish was "a Chassidisher bachur,"
and even after he married he was "a geshmaker yungerman."
R’ Yehuda Chitrik told Beis Moshiach, "I remember R’
Avrohom Feivish as one of the distinguished T’mimim, and one of the
ovdim who was involved in avodas ha’t’filla.
After the Communist revolution, R’ Avrohom Feivish moved to
old Borisov (Stara Borisov). He married in Tishrei 5682. He wrote the Rebbe
Rayatz about this and received a reply in which the Rebbe urged him to learn and
teach Chassidus both orally and "inside" [the text], in Borisov.
HaTamim M. Avrohom Shraga Feivish: "It was with pleasure
that I read your letter of P. Bereishis, and mazel tov, mazel tov
for your engagement in a good and auspicious time. May your lives always be
fortunate in gashmius and ruchnius.
"Regarding your question about business, may Hashem give you
great success to support yourself expansively. And you should establish times
for learning, and review Chassidus orally in public, and learn "inside" as the
listeners understand, and strive with great effort. Then Hashem will surely
help, b’gashmius and b’ruchnius.
"Write me at length about everything regarding the new city
of Barisov, does it have chadarim, or any young married men? Are there
any members of Anash there who have a bit of passion for learning and
davening, and not just those who are Chassidim in name only, without Torah
and avoda."
R’ Yehuda Chitrik: "After he married, R’ Avrohom Feivish
became a shochet u’bodek in Borisov. During World War II he was drafted.
The Nazis killed his wife and children and entire family (may Hashem avenge
their blood). R’ Avrohom Feivish was wounded in the stomach by shrapnel or a
bullet. This wound remained open and he always suffered from it. A medic would
come every day to bandage it.
R’ Avrohom Feivish went to Samarkand where he was appointed
mashpia in Tomchei T’mimim there.
R’ Hillel Saltzman relates: After the war, R’ Avrohom Feivish
returned to Borisov to see who of his family was still alive. When he arrived
there he was shocked to see half the city destroyed by the Nazis, and to
discover that his entire family had been murdered by the Nazis. The sole
survivor of his family was a niece (maybe the daughter of his brother).
Miraculously, his own house was still standing, but due to
the bombing, it had moved a few meters. R’ Avrohom Feivish decided to remain in
Borisov, and he married a second time (to his niece). Since he could not obtain
kosher meat, he became a shochet u’bodek once again, and provided kosher
meat for all the surrounding cities.
R’ Yitzchok Mishulovin relates: When I was in Russia, I heard
a lot about the Chassid R’ Avrohom Feivish Zarchin. In my youth, the Chassid R’
Chaim Zalman Kozliner (known by the acronym Chazak) told me it was very
worthwhile going to Borisov to R’ Avrohom Feivish because I could get guidance
in Chassidus from him, and receive a great deal in nigleh, Chassidus and
the ways of Chassidus and avodas ha’t’filla. But it didn’t work out and I
did not go to him.
R’ Avrohom Feivish passed away in Borisov in Iyar 5741.
* * *
R’ MOSHE REUVEN ZARCHIN, A’H
R’ Avrohom Feivish’s older brother, R’ Moshe Reuven, was born in Zembin
around the year 5656, and learned in Tomchei T’mimim for a period of time.
R’ Avrohom Drizin (Maiyor), relates: The older brother, R’
Moshe Reuven, left Lubavitch after some time (but his younger brother, R’
Avrohom Feivish remained and was one of the outstanding boys there).
In the winter of 5682 (1921-1922), R’ Moshe Reuven married.
He wrote the Rebbe Rayatz and received the following letter:
"To my student M. Moshe Reuven,
"In reply to your letter of the fifth day of VaYechi, I bless
you with birkas mazel tov, and may all your days be fortunate ones
b’gashmius and ruchnius. Wherever you go, strengthen the good and
upstanding things, supporting those who learn Torah etc."
R’ Moshe Reuven moved to Kursko and in 5696, when R’ Shmuel
Zalmanov, who was the shochet in Kursk moved to Eretz Yisroel, R’ Moshe
Reuven was appointed shochet u’bodek in his stead.